Are you ALWAYS looking for the external confirmation?
Are you ALWAYS looking for the external
What is it that usually shakes your
confidence down? Have you noticed that? Is it
sometimes something that you do or something
that someone else has done? How do you deal
with it at the time? Do you look for external
motivation to seek approval or do you tend to
find that within you? Do you actually have it
within you? Are you seeing a confidence
booster or a general help?
Wow, I kind of dumped a lot of questions on
you today to start with but I think that
getting the answer to each one of them is
actually detrimental to ANY of your
Have you felt that you’ve reached a point in
your life where you kind of feel that you are
“there” within your goal and then bam!
Something goes wrong and you end up
questioning everything that you do.
You end up seeking advice for help! But
you’ve put that person you’re seeking advice
from so high up on a pedestal that they
simply can’t do no wrong! You idolise them!
You KNOW they hold the answers to your
questions! So you go to them to ask for help!
But what if you already KNOW the answers? Do
you ACTUALLY need that external influence to
answer them? 99.9 % of the time – YOU DON’T!
You don’t need ME to help you with your
struggles if you have failed because of
someone else. You don’t need ANYONE else to
give you the answers that you already HAVE.
So why the HECK am I writing this then?
Because I want to think of the reasons as to
why you might feel resistant to the thought
to having the power within you.
Because I want to help you realise that some
things that happen are OUT of your control.
Don’t get me wrong, there’s no better idea
than looking for help from others when you
generally want to improve your self being and
But please, don’t do it so you can put
Don’t do it to prove to yourself that you
don’t know what you already know.
Because the real chance is that you won’t
take anyone’s advice on a first place just
because there might be a reason that you’re
seeking to fail.
Do you have the answer already?
Or are you truly seeking help?
Or maybe is just a guidance to steer you in
the right direction of the map within you?
All might sound very profound but try to read
this at least another 3-4 times and you just
might get this light bulb moment!
If you TRULY decided that you need help – I’m
If not, it’s amazing that you’ve found your
And that’s a joy that is worth sharing with
Elena (moment of reality) Terziyska
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